flip da script - follow up to the previous post

Have you ever been in the situation where a relative (in-law by marriage either common law or just a significant other to your relative) or a friend (close or good aquaintance) tried to step to you for some romance/fu*&^%$...

I have had this happen so many times and it really made mad as hell. Then my later thought was ok getting pass the obvious that he is attracted to me - is there something about me that makes him think that i would be down with being a side peice of ass - and worse a side peice of ass to one of my friends or family members.

my evil twin/monsterous ego has no PROBLEM with taking over in these situation ans i was hell to dem niggas - read on for the rhythm and fire, bitch nigga role call!

my list - please note that every response was from a different person...

spoken like the true undercover thug I is!!!

--- called him every mutherf*&^%$ combination in da book

--- slapped the shit out of him

--- spit on him

--- walked away with my mouth hanging wide open

--- went and sat in my fiances lap

--- told the guy i was dating (because he noticed my mood had changed i.e., he asked)

--- cussed his ass out

--- didn't respond and stopped going to hang with my girl until she dumped his ass

--- told somebody who told everybody!!!

--- threaten to kill his ass

what did you do you (or would you do) when your friend or relative significant other tried to get with you...

If you went jerry springer of maury - no judgement here

what happens onthe blog stays on the blog (yea right - lol)

Damn why and how do you know so damn much about it?!

Mind Yo’Buisness!

He cheatin, she cheatin they break up and it goes around and around again. They get back together. She tell and he tells his friends if you see anything, let me know.
Whats the deal with so many broken relationship and people cheating left and right???
This is no new thing.. The game don’t change just the players – what is this all about. I have never understood!

Now if you happen to watch show like “Maury” or as I like to call it “Who’s That Babies Daddy?”

You’ll stay perplexed on the issue.

I just don’t get it… Help me understand?

Is it a sex thing?
Is it I want out of the relationship thang?
Is it I just can’t myself thang?
Or do you secretly CRAVE DRAMA and the possibility of a STD???


My personal take on it – comes from my Mama, God bless her soul who warned me to mind my own business. Strange things happen between a man and a woman and its best to keep it to your self. The person you tell will FIND a WAY to resent you eventually some way and some how!!!
How crazy and I have seen it to be true – time and time again

Bottom line question?!

Would you really want somebody to tell you what you already know by fact or by instinct?

Heres a survey for you family:

Would you tell if you saw a female relative’s beau with another woman?

Would you tell if you saw a good friend’s beau with another woman/man?

Would you tell if you saw your dad or uncle with another woman?

Must See Movies!!!!

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A family patriarch is bereaved of his wife on a tragic car accident. As he tries to pull his family together with the help of his sister, a hustler tempts his son and three other neighborhood boys into a shady lifestyle. The boys must learn to grow into manhood by choosing the right paths in their lives.

What are you thinking?

What have you been thinking lately?

Do you know? We get so accustomed to our thoughts that we lose awareness of them. We don’t see how they are stuck in old habitual patterns, most of which don’t serve us.

Take time to journal so you can capture your thoughts on paper. By doing so, you will begin to take control of your mind and use it to best advantage.